Never Let Others Destroy Your Dreams
March 5, 2012 on 9:15 pm | In Dreaming True, Interpreting Dreams, Musings | No CommentsNever let others destroy your dreams. That can mean many things.
In dreamwork, that means never letting others push their own interpretation of your dreams off on you. Others can offer suggestions, but only you can be sure what your dreams mean. It depends on what resonates with you.
In daily life, it means not letting nay-sayers squash your hopes, visions, and dreams of the future. It means having the courage to believe in yourself and take action to make your dreams—even your night dreams if you like them—come true. Let no one discourage you from fulfilling your dreams.
Practically speaking you can protect your dreams, and the possibilities they represent, by not letting criminals steal your identity. Identity theft can rob you of your credit rating, empty your bank account, and allow criminals to run up tens of thousands of dollars of debt in your name.
Identity thieves can keep you from getting the education you want, the job you need, the house you have always dreamed of—and more. So what do you do to prevent that?
An identity protection service such as IdentityHawk can help protect your identity and help you restore your identity if it is compromised by data loss at your school or work, on line, or through a security breach at your bank or a credit card company—among other places. Knowing your identity, bank accounts, and credit rating are safe from identity fraud provides peace of mind and protects your future.
Identity theft protection not only helps you safeguard your money, reputation and possessions, they also help you assess the health of your identity, show you the areas where it may be most at risk, and help you take steps to reduce the risks. in other words, they help you protect your dreams now and in the future.
Dreams are fragile things. Take care of your dreams, heed them, and take action to protect the means to make them come true.
How to Remember Your Dreams
March 3, 2012 on 11:58 pm | In Dream Journals, Dream Research, Dreamwork | No CommentsSome people say that they do not dream, but that is an illusion. We all dream. Some of us do not remember our dreams. Certain things can interfere with dreaming, such as being constantly awakened, or taking certain kinds of medications.
Constant Awakening Prevents Dreaming
As you probably know, there are several levels of sleep. Most dreaming, the dreams we remember, occur during the so-called rapid-eye-movement (REM) levels of sleep.
Unfortunately it takes our bodies anywhere from 45 to 90 minutes to reach the first REM cycle of the night. If you are awakened before that, when you go back to sleep, the process starts over.
Sleep laboratory researchers have found that by awakening people over and over before they reach the REM cycle, they can keep people from dreaming—at night. After awhile, though, people start dreaming uncontrollably with their eyes wide open. In other words, without being allowed to dream, they start to hallucinate.
If your only choice is to try to sleep in a noisy or insecure environment, your sleep cycles may be short-circuited by constantly being awakened before you get to dream. Medical residents or interns and others who only get to doze while on call in hospitals for days at a time are good examples of this kind of sleep deprivation.
Stop Suddenly Awakening
If you can do without the jarring sudden awakening caused by an alarm clock, studies show, you are more likely to remember your dreams. If someone in the household can quietly awaken you, that could replace the alarm. Best practice is to get enough sleep (always a good health idea) and allow yourself to awaken naturally.
Stay still for a few moments when you first wake up. Spend that time gently allowing yourself to recall any dreams.
Check Your Medications
If you take sleeping pills, you may be suppressing your dreams—or suppressing the memory of them. If you can learn to sleep without pills, you will have a better chance of remembering your dreams.
Some other medications may interfere with dreaming. Unfortunately they may be something you cannot safely do without. Remembering your dreams is valuable, but no one is suggesting that you risk your health over it.
Still, if you are doing the other things suggested in this article, and you still can’t remember your dreams, you might consider asking your doctor if another medication would do the same job without the side effect of suppressing your dreams. If you plan to do that, I suggest doing a bit of on-line research on the negative health effects of dream suppression and presenting those to your doctor. That way s/he will be more likely to take you seriously.
Form the Intent to Remember
Research shows that just the act of regularly trying to recall your dreams daily and making an attempt to write them down encourages your mind to remember them. It is as though you are proving to your subconscious mind that you are willing to pay attention, and so it tries harder to reach you.
Dream recall may not happen immediately. It could take a few days, weeks, or even months. But if you make a habit of trying to remember your dreams, and you make brief notes of any dream feelings or ideas you do recall, gradually your dreams will start to come back to you.
Writing Down Your Dreams
Any notebook will do to record your dreams. Maybe the term “dream journaling” sounds pretentious or time-consuming to you. If so, consider just carrying a plain little notebook all the time. You can reserve it from dream notation, or you can use it for other things, too. The important thing is to do it.
Robert Moss, who teaches people to work with their dreams, says to jot down whatever wisp of dream memory you have when you first wake up if possible. But he also says that bits of dream memory may come to you at any time of the day, so you should be prepared to jot down whatever you can whenever you remember it. By doing that, he says, you often end up remembering the whole dream.
Never Give Up on Your Dreams
Remember that we all dream. If your circumstances can be changed to make dreaming and dream recall easier for you now, do so. Make sure your bed is comfortable and the room is quiet. (Falling asleep in front of the TV is not helpful!)
If you cannot change your current circumstances, sometimes they change themselves. The baby learns to sleep through the night, the doctor changes your prescription, the noisy neighbor moves away, and so on.
Meanwhile, never give up. We all naturally dream. And we can almost all learn to remember our dreams. It just takes a little more work for some of us than for others.
Remembering your dreams is worth the effort. It can be an aid to mental and physical health. It can also be entertaining and enlightening.
Sweet Dreams to Paulie and to You
This post was inspired by a comment Paulie made about the post that said orienting your bed north-south (instead of east-west) increases dreaming. Somehow, although I can see the comment in the control panel area of this blog, it has not shown up on the page with the post. So I want to say thank you to Paulie for the comment.
Please keep trying to remember your dreams. It is worth the effort.
And thank you to all the other readers of blog, too, especially those who take the time to comment. I consider all of you to be a real blessing.
Sweet dreams.
Ten Thousand Dreams Interpreted, or what’s in a dream: a scientific and practical exposition
February 29, 2012 on 12:44 pm | In Active Dreaming | No CommentsThe book has no illustrations or index. Purchasers are entitled to a free trial membership in the General Books Club where they can select from more than a million books without charge. Subjects: Dreams; Dream interpretation; Symbolism (Psychology) Dreams; Psychology / General Self-Help / Dreams; Self-Help / General; Body, Mind & Spirit / Parapsychology / General Body, Mind & Spirit / Dreams; Self-Help / Dreams;
Fortunetelling and Your Dreams
January 7, 2012 on 2:05 pm | In Dream Journals, Dreaming True, Future Dreams, Message Dreams, Processing Dreams | No CommentsIs fortunetelling related to your dreams? If so, how?
As C.G. Jung wrote and taught, our subconscious mind communicates with us via dreams and dreamlike images, including artistic expressions (such as drawing our own mandalas) and dreamlike images—even just with images and words that catch our eye during the day. Really good fortunetellers, like good Jungian psychotherapists, can pick up on those images in various ways.
Some would say that a good fortuneteller reads your aura (or reads your mind or subconscious mind) just as a good therapist listens not only to what you say but also to what is implied in what you say, and do not say, and how you express it.
Others would say that the very best fortunetellers get information for you from a higher metaphysical level, what C.G. Jung referred to as the transpersonal level. That is, they may get information from the dimension in which all human consciousness is said to be connected.
Many of us are not totally aware of all that we know. We have subconscious knowledge that—for whatever reason—we do not acknowledge consciously. A good fortuneteller can really help with that.
A really superb fortuneteller can often provide uncannily accurate information that we could not possibly have known ourselves, as subsequent events may prove to us.
One thing that I seldom hear people discuss about fortunetellers is that they also receive their information, the information that they give us, as dreamlike images. One of the things that makes a good fortuneteller or psychic is the ability to interpret those dreamlike images on our behalf.
Another valuable trait of a good fortuneteller is knowing when to share such images with us directly, allowing us to get in touch with such images ourselves, providing further insight that we can draw for ourselves. So often a good reading by a professional fortuneteller continues to provide insights as events and relationships develop, and we more and more understand the dreamlike images they provide for us.
In a way, a fortuneteller dreams on behalf of their client and then shares and interprets the dream images with the client. That makes it so interesting and valuable to chat live with a psychic.
Why not give it a try? Just be sure to write down all those predictions, especially the images (visual and words and phrases) in your dream journal, so you can continue to study them for additional insights.
And be sure to stop by and leave a comment to let us know how it turns out.
Using the Wisdom of Dreams for Inner Healing
January 6, 2012 on 3:59 pm | In Dream Symbols, Dreamwork, Healing Dreams, Interpreting Dreams, Message Dreams | No CommentsAccording to the brilliant psychotherapist, Carl Jung, dreams are one way that our inner selves communicate with us through images. All of us can gain from the wisdom imparted to us in our dreams, but not all of us know how.
Such wisdom, while tremendously valuable and healing, can be difficult for most of us to interpret for ourselves. Jung pioneered the art of interpreting a person’s dreams, and the images used in artistic expressions, to facilitate emotional healing and mental wellness.
“In each of us there is another whom we do not know. He speaks to us in dreams and tells us how differently he sees us from the way we see ourselves. When, therefore, we find ourselves in a difficult situation to which there is no solution, he can sometimes kindle a light that radically alters our attitude-the very attitude that led us into the difficult situation.” – C.G. Jung, Civilization in Transition
Jung trained other psychotherapists to use his methods, and through his writing, he made his system accessible to millions. Jung wrote about his own dreams as well as those of his patients. He encouraged patients to express their inner lives in art.
Jung himself used the form of the mandala, or circle, to work with his dreamlike inner images. He encouraged his students and patients to do so as well, and he wrote eloquently of the value of such images in bringing the human being into mental and emotional maturity and wholeness.
Exploring one’s inner world via Jungian methods is best done in jungian psychotherapy, where one explores one’s inner world with the help of a Jungian therapist who has not only trained in Jungian therapy but also experienced it as a client. Jung’s teachings have inspired millions over the years, and Jungian psychotherapy has helped many people achieve inner healing and emotional growth.
There are Jungian therapists in virtually every major city worldwide. Some cities also have C.G. Jung Centers which host educational lectures and often have bookstores featuring the work of Jung, his students, and other Jungian therapists.
For more information on Jungian therapy and how it can help you, if you are in the New York City area, call Douglas Tompkins, M.Div., L.P., NCPsyA, a Jungian analyst practicing in NYC (mid-town Manhattan). For a consultation, contact him by phone at 212-504-0887 or email him at dgtompkins@nyjungian.com.
The Secret of Dreams
December 22, 2011 on 4:57 am | In Dreamwork | No CommentsThe Secret of Dreams is presented here in a high quality paperback edition. This popular classic work by Yacki Raizizun is in the English language, and may not include graphics or images from the original edition. If you enjoy the works of Yacki Raizizun then we highly recommend this publication for your book collection.
Shattered (Dream Realms Trilogy, #1)
December 20, 2011 on 4:57 am | In Dreamwork | No CommentsDescription:Laura Cubus was perfectly content with her life. A junior in high school, she felt perfectly normal. She had good friends, a great family, and did well in school. Nothing particularly exciting ever happened where she lived, and everything was stable.But that all drastically changes when a new student arrives at Laura’s school. Wild rumours swirl about his past, and Laura becomes determined to find out the truth. As she gets to know the mysterious student, he shares with her an ancient secret… one that may yet put both of them in grave danger. And for the first time in her life, Laura is exposed to a completely unfamiliar world. She is swept away on an exhilarating journey that takes to a place where great destiny may yet await… and where supernatural powers run rampant. Shattered is the first book of the Dream Realms TrilogyDestined, the second book in the Dream Realms Trilogy, is available on Amazon (http://amzn.com/B005G4G8PG). It is approximately 1.7 times the le
Graced (Dream Realms Trilogy, #3 – Part 1)
December 18, 2011 on 4:57 am | In Dreamwork | No CommentsThere is a prophecy that speaks of a time of great turmoil, a time when the rule of power will be overturned by the hammer of fate. That time has come, and one girl stands in the middle of it all…Laura has been reunited with Logan, and together they must face the elders. But this time, they have the angels on their side. It is a precious advantage, but only if used properly…She has learned of the prophecy of her fate, and learned of her destiny. But while others are certain, she is less sure. And as she moves forward, she learns that absolutely nothing can ever be guaranteed.Graced is the first part of the final book in the Dream Realms Trilogy, and the sequel to both Shattered and Destined. It is approximately the same length as Destined.
Dreamer’s Dictionary
December 14, 2011 on 4:57 am | In Dreamwork | No CommentsThis backlist favorite, selling over 1 million copies since its first publication, has been repackaged for a dynamic new look. The result of years of research, this easy-to-use guide tells how to distinguish the four types of dreams, identify dream symbols, and understand meanings. “Admirable”.–New York Times.
The Tibetan Yogas of Dream and Sleep
December 12, 2011 on 4:57 am | In Dreamwork | No Comments“If we cannot carry our practice into sleep,” Tenzin Wangyal Rinpoche writes, “if we lose ourselves every night, what chance do we have to be aware when death comes? Look to your experience in dreams to know how you will fare in death. Look to your experience of sleep to discover whether or not you are truly awake.”This book gives detailed instruction for dream yoga, including foundational practices done during the day. In the Tibetan tradition, the ability to dream lucidly is not an end in itself, rather it provides an additional context in which one can engage in advanced and effective practices to achieve liberation.Dream yoga is followed by sleep yoga, also known as the yoga of clear light. It is a more advanced practice, similar to the most secret Tibetan practices. The goal is to remain awake during deep sleep when the gross conceptual mind and the operation of the senses cease. Most Westerners do not even consider this depth of awareness a possibility, yet it is well known in Ti
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